{"id":22912,"date":"2016-01-02T16:56:44","date_gmt":"2016-01-02T16:56:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thomasjpitts.co.uk\/wordpress\/?p=22912"},"modified":"2016-01-01T22:10:41","modified_gmt":"2016-01-01T22:10:41","slug":"2-how-do-you-actually-use-social-media","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thomasjpitts.co.uk\/wordpress\/2016\/01\/02\/2-how-do-you-actually-use-social-media\/","title":{"rendered":"2: How do you actually use social media?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s a thing. I&#8217;ve deliberately stopped this site from automatically sharing itself with Facebook &#8211; although I have left links with Twitter, Google+ and some others.<\/p>\n<p>The reason for this is the different types of users I am associated with on \u00a0these different platforms. Facebook covers all sorts of people &#8211; from work, from school, from University, from banding, from caching&#8230; &#8211; every aspect of my life is represented on there and it&#8217;s become a bit of a mess as a result.<\/p>\n<p>Spending time on Facebook has become less enjoyable over time and I am finding that I tend to &#8220;thin out&#8221; my friend list as I notice that people become irritating to me. This may come over as being a little pompous or rude &#8211; but it really isn&#8217;t. I&#8217;ve started to believe that if I wouldn&#8217;t want to spend time with those people in a pub, or any other social gathering, then I probably don&#8217;t need them on that site either.<\/p>\n<p>The other sites I mentioned before work differently. They have a less permanent feel to them Twitter, in particular, I really only have for teaching links. I very rarely read my Twitter feed and only really skim when I do.<\/p>\n<p>The other thing that I find annoying about Facebook is that the more people you\u2019re connected to on the site and the more \u201clikes\u201d you post, the more adverts are personalised. I don&#8217;t want to buy anything simply because some of my friends have. I don&#8217;t want to watch the same DVDs\/TV shows\/films as them.Facebook encourages widespread sharing by making the default settings for an adult\u2019s Facebook page public to all. The site has made a concession when it comes to teenagers: the default setting allows basic personal information (name, networks, photo) to be<\/p>\n<p>Facebook encourages widespread sharing &#8211; it creates a currency out of &#8220;likes&#8221; &#8211; just in the same way that the number of views a video has on YouTube is somehow deemed important. I am much happier watching something that only a handful of other people have seen, but thoroughly enjoy!<\/p>\n<p>I love that the more distant parts of my family are on Facebook. I love that they tell me they feel that they know what I&#8217;m up to because of my posts on there. Will this year see me post fewer pictures of my cat? Or perhaps share less Doctor Who or Maths related things? I doubt it.<\/p>\n<p>Will I think more about what I put on there? I hope so.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s a thing. I&#8217;ve deliberately stopped this site from automatically sharing itself with Facebook &#8211; although I have left links with Twitter, Google+ and some others. The reason for this is the different types of users I am associated with on \u00a0these different platforms. 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